I really, I mean REALLY, wish I had more chest hair.. CURSE YOU LATIN GENETICS!!!!!!
Is that people like to make assumptions. For example, people see me and my boyfriend together and like to make assumptions/judgements/etc. on who “wears the pants” in our relationship…
Just fucking stop right there. I don’t agree for one fucking moment on the whole gender roles assignment on gay couples. One is more masculine/feminine than the other.. Seriously? Are we STILL in the Stone Age?
My face is usually clean shaven, I take care of my skin, I buy large amounts of beauty products, dress (somewhat) flamboyant, I paint my nails, I detest getting dirty..
My boyfriend has a full beard, chest hair, is extremely handy, likes getting dirty, can work on a car and actually accomplish things, dresses “normally”, can go without some deodorant.. Not that any of these things really define us, but they’re just traits that people see on the surface.
So people automatically assume he wears the pants. That I’m some delicate flower that needs tending.. It’s annoying.
And, cuz I know people think thoroughly, that I’m a bottom.
Well, I’m not.
All of this based on appearance.
I play video games, work, lay around and be fat and lazy. He’s a chef, loves cleaning, gardening, can fucking WERK IT in 8 inch stilettos..
We’re always breaking the mold.
So, stuff your judgments. You’re stereotypes. We both wear the pants. That’s that.